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Friday, October 17, 2008

RITE OF PASSAGE

The Malay marriage is a regal affair. The bride and groom are treated as king and queen for a day. The pre-wedding meeting between the bride's and the groom's parents will determine the dowry that is to be given to the bride as well as the date of the solemnization. This may be as early as a year before the wedding itself so that arrangements could be made in advance. Often the wedding is held on one convenient weekend so as to accommodate relatives who live far away and to reduce costs. The henna application ceremony is held prior to the wedding. The bride's palms and feet are 'decorated' with the dye from the henna leaves. Sometimes this is followed by the costume changes and the bride and, less often, the groom will don different clothes for photography. The raised dais will be beautifully decorated for the purpose
The pre-wedding meeting between the bride's and the groom's parents will determine the dowry that is to be given to the bride as well as the date of thesolemnization. This may be as early as a year before the wedding itself so thatarrangements could be made in advance. Often the wedding is held on one convenient weekend so as to accommodate relatives who live far away and to reduce costs. The henna application ceremony is held prior to the wedding. The bride's palms and feet are 'decorated' with the dye from the henna leaves. Sometimes this is followed by the costume changes and the bride and, less often,the groom will don different clothes for photography. The raised dais will be beautifully decorated for the purpose.
Guests are invited to partake of a meal on Sunday. This is usually held in the void deck of a housing board flat so as to accommodate the large number of guests invited. Besides cutting down on costs, holding the feast in the void deck also enables the guests to view the bridal chamber and the sitting in state ceremony often held in the bride/groom home. The wedding preparation is often based on the got cooperation among friends and relatives, for which the Malays are most well known for. Again in Singapore, simplicity has given way to tradition and requires that such tasks be undertaken by caterers.








ACADEMIC WRITING

My brother’s wedding was an interesting ritual.. The ceremony started with “akad nikah” or marriage vow, which was overseen by the imam in front of some witnesses. The most challenging session for the groom was the "akad nikah" time where the groom was needed to express a verse in order to marry the bride legally. This was the most rerrifying time for the groom which would make the groom's hand sweating all over and there were butterflies in his stomach for sure. Then, other event in the wedding day was the” bersanding” ceremony that might take longer time depending on the number of guests and family members who wished to partake in the “tepung tawar” session. The guests were served with various kinds of food and also “bunga telur” as token gifts. The ceremony finished with photography session among family members with the king and queen of the day. The ceremony resembled in the Grand Continental Hotel. Plus, turquoise was the theme colour for this ceremony. Moreover, there were six guests for each table per serving. A part from that, the symbolic object tied between the special spouses of the day was two jewel rings. It represented the symbol of love through their marriage. The My brother's wedding is most interesting ritual that I never forget in my life.


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Thursday, October 16, 2008

MY FRIEND AND TOYS
SYAIMA : Like use toys to play is tree house, cooking, teaching, doctor, and fire station. And the favorite activity when she were a child is cooking.
SAADAH : Toys that she like is teddy bear, army and so on. And favorite activity is police and thief, chick and nauntes.
FISHA : Teddy Bear is a favorite toys and hide and seek is favorite activity when she were a child.
NABILA : Lego and Teddy Bear is favorite Toys and ride a bicycle is a favorite activity when she were a child.
NUR AIN : Like use toys to play is Catapult And the favorite activity when she were a child is hide and seek.

HANI : Lego and Teddy Bear is favorite toys and hide and seek is favorite activity.

NURUL : Teddy Bear is favorite toy and police and thief is favorite activity.

HAZIQ : Chalk and black board is his favorite toy and bycycle for cycling is favorite activity.

SAFIA : Grocery store and teddy bear is favorite toy and riding a bicycle is favorite activity when she were a child.

FAZRIN : Toy Car is favorite toy and police and thief is favorite activity when he were a child.


MY FRIEND INTERESTING EVENT

After I interview my classmate, my entire friend have their own interesting point and unique.From among them tell about wedding, school annual day, ceremony of Khatam Al-Quran and others. But the most interesting that I attracting among them is Syaima. She tell about her cousin weeding. What attractive about her is when she said they provide many kind of food. Normally when I participate any wedding, I just have a dish of food “Nasi Minyak”. But she said they provide others nasi minyak is Laksa, Bihun Sup, Bubur Kacang, and also from west food such as Barbeque. So, that’s very grate and unique event. I could not imagine how grand their wedding. Others unique in their event that’s I never saw wedding is the atmosphere of the wedding was romantic because during the ceremony, love music song was played. Their relatives wear blue colour clothes, because blue colour is their theme for the wedding. I think the quest in their wedding very enjoyed and appreciate from their event. She also said, they invites the people surround their stage especially relative and friend nearby. Lastly, I’m very attracting to her experience and maybe will be idea for my future wedding. Huhuhu.

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The avant-garde :
1.new and very modern ideas in art, music or literature that are sometimes surprising or shocking.
2. a group of artist, who introduce new and very modern ideas.



Question : find how meaning for so, and for each meaning.

· Used to emphasize an adjective or adverb, especially when this produce a particular result. Example: He was driving so fast that he couldn’t stop.

· Used in negative sentences for comparing people or thing. Example: she’s not so clever as we thought.

· Used in place of something that has been said already, to avoid repeating it. Example : are you coming by plane? If so, I can meet you at the airport.

· Not with verb in the negative also, too. Example : he’s a teacher and so is his wife.

· Used to show that you agree that sth is true, especially when you are surprised. Example : it’s getting late. So it is. We’d better go.

· (formal) used when you are showing in this way, like this. Example : It was a black insect, about so big.

· With the result that, therefore. Example : She felt very tired so she went to bed early.

· With the purpose that, in order that. Example : She wore dark glasses so nobody would recognize her.

· Used to show how one part of a story follows another. Example : so what happen next?
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Monday, October 13, 2008

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Buying something just for its image.
There is a lot of advertisement in Malaysia. One day, I am attracted to some advertising about product if skin solution. I look that image very interested and I hope when I use the product, my pace will become like the model of the product. The product image like wonderful and using the pink colour as a team colour. My impression, the product can give me become beautiful and my skin looking fairer, smoother and firmer to the touch. So, every day I will collect my money until enough suppose I buy the product. But after I tried the product, the result gives me disappointed because not suitable with my skin. So, now I will never trust any advertisement just for its it image.


When I was 7 years old, I learned a great lesson from my parent. That was the day when I was riding my bicycle. Every day, my favorite activity is riding a bicycle. I will ride my bicycle with my friend around the village. Sometimes, we will ride bicycle in high speed or maybe speeding in a race between us. My parent always advise me but I never listened to their advises. For me, I had a lot of fun doing whatever I like with my bicycle.
One day, when we enjoyed in a race. Unfortunately, my bicycle has punctured. To make it worse, I couldn’t handle my bicycle properly. Suddenly, my bicycle went straight to the drain including myself. It was a painful moment for me because I had severe injuries all over my body. It was an unforgettable accident. What I have learnt from this incident was as a child, we must listen to the eldest especially our parent because they have their own reasons on why they prohibit us from doing that they don’t like.

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itulah manusia dan liciknya syaitan yang memperdaya,

cinta Allah tidak mengecewakan,

cintanya sentiasa membawa kebahagiaan kepada hati, perasaan dan kehidupan.

Oleh itu, marilah kita menjadi wanita yg bisa mengetuk kelalaian lelaki dari terpesona dengan fitnah wanita.

Cinta perlu dihijab dengan iman dan khasyatullah kerana Allah jadikan cinta sebagai satu ujian.

Bersamalah mujahadah menjaga hati!"